The Freedom to Be

When you see images and pictures of people imprisoned or living in countries where they do not have choices, do you often think how lucky you are to be free and to enjoy your freedom?

But are we really free?  Can we actually say we are free to do as we please always? What is freedom exactly?

I ask these questions as I have been thinking about this lately.  I have always been a bit of a thinker.  I find myself overanalyzing things at times too.  But recently I sat down and thought do we prevent ourselves from doing things because of other people?  What they might think of us?  What society might say?  What our parent's might say?  What we have been told can or cannot be done. Or do we restrict ourselves because of something deep within us?  Because of our own thoughts and fears?

When I was a young girl I had to behave, listen, do as I was told and be prim and proper.  I had to paint an image that I was the good girl and I was.  I remember thinking I couldn't wait to grow up and experience life. There was a part of me just waiting to get out. I wanted to live life. All the good, the bad and the ugly of it.

I also remember when I got to that point I went through a bit of a rebellious stage. I wouldn't call it drastic.  More so I moved out of home and learnt how to be an adult.  I made quite a few mistakes but in the end I have no regrets.  I needed to make those mistakes to learn life lessons.  I was fearless at the time.  Nothing would stop me on my path to enjoying what life was offereing me.  I had freed myself of the shackles of what was expected and did absolutely what I wanted.  Yes people talked and made up rubbish too, but I didn't care because in my mind I was living life and enjoying it all.  Even the bad times gave me lessons.  No one was going to dictate how I should live. I was responsible for myself and my actions.

There were people I had met at this time who wouldn't dare do or try things because they were afraid of what people would say.  I thought at the time that it was sad they couldn't experience their lives because of that fear.  That they could not express themselves.  That really in a place where we had more than basic needs to survive, people were restricting themselves on other levels.

So are we really free to be?  Free to be ourselves.  Do you sit there and think can I breathe?  Am I doing what I want?  Do I live where I want and am I exactly where I want to be?

Some people may be imprisoned physically, But mentally restricted?  I know at one time or another we have all been there or are there.  Trapped by fears, thoughts and what is expected of us.

Trapped by not being able to stand up and take that leap of faith.  Enjoy the food we want to eat or the places we want to go.  Or even say the things we want to say.

I think for some of us being free means having money.  For others it's escaping the suffocation of societies expectations or those of our families. For some it's getting rid of negativity and those who create it and  for others I think freedom means clean drinking water, fresh food, hygiene and health care systems.

For me Freedom is you being you. Or should I say me being me. Whether you are accepted or not that's one thing, but, you may just find you are appreciated.  Admired even.  At the end of the day who cares!  As long as in your mind you are happy and you are doing the things you enjoy.

As long as you can breathe and you know that you can walk with your head held high.

So are you free?  Is there such a thing as pure freedom?  That's something only you can answer to yourself.

Yes we are limited by the law obviously.  Commonsense will tell us right from wrong.  But Freedom is something you give to yourself if your surroundings gives you everything else.

Happy Monday.

What's in my MAKEUP Bag

As I promised a few blog posts ago, here is the make up bag reveal.  Yes it's pink. It was given to me by a friend and I quite like the design.  Usually on any given day I have at least a lipgloss and powder in my bag for touch ups.  However sometimes I need more then that.  I know that I probably carry more in this little bag than most people.  But then again I have had an affinity with make up for many years going back to early teenage hood when I would save my lunch money and buy Avon.  Yes it's true!!!

I don't really know who I take after in that department as my mother only wears lipstick and that's when she goes out.  I wear make up even when I don't go out.  Call me obsessed.  Call me crazy.  But that's just me.  It's a bit like a hobby and a passion all rolled into one.  Plus it's a very normal habit for me.  It's like brushing my teeth. 

So without further ado here we go:

The first thing I have in my make up bag is this small palette by Elf Cosmetics.  It has 16 mini eyeshadows, 8 mini lipsticks, and good sized Blushes and bronzers.  Very handy to have if you need touch ups but also if your running late for work or you just can't finish your make up look at home this is perfect.  I bought it for about $8.00 on a website called Iherb.  Elf products are sold in K-mart however they do not stock the whole range.  The pigmentation on the eyeshadows are very good considering the price.  Highly recommended.  It is called the Beach Beauty night palette.

I don't know about you guys but I never leave without a powder compact.  For the last 3 years my trusty Chanel compact did the trick but this one is just as good by Australis.  Gets rid of all the shiny spots.  In my case the T Zone of my face.  Affordable and Australian.

This has been my favourite blush for a long while.  It's number 190 Coral by Rimmel.  It is not too matt but not too shimmery.  It's a great satin finish.  This is a must have in my bag and is a different colour to the one in the Elf palette which is more of a pink colour.

I am currently in love with this highlighter.  It's the body shop Shimmer waves in Coral.  Gives a gorgeous glow to your cheeks.  Perfect on tanned skin and for the coming Summer months.  I highly recommend this product.  I have many other highlighters but this is the one I carry with me.

During the day at times with my Oily T-zone my make up tends to fade around my nose and chin.  I take this concealer with me for touch ups but also if I've had a particularly hard night and I have to go out afterward and I can't go home this is fabulous.  It's the Rimmel Wake me Up concealer. This concealer covers dark circles but gives you a bright undertone.  It's also good at covering up spots.

I have with me 2 lipliners from Jordana, 1 black eyeliner from Inglot an eyeliner in Brown by Stila and a NYX wonder pencil which has a multipurpose use.  It covers spots, can fix up makeup mistakes, is great for the lower waterline to make your eyes pop.  Also good if you want to highlight certain areas of your face.  Depending on which make up look for the day I grab one of these pencils for a touch up.

I know 6 lipsticks.  However they are in different shades and do well to go with any make up look I have.   3 are from Rimmel in the colours, 210 Coral in Gold, Lipstick 32, Lipstick07.  I have one by NYX in Indian Pink.  Wet n Wild Pink Sugar and Ulta3 Nude kisses.  These are great wearable, affordable lipsticks for any occasion.  Suits most skin tones too.

I have a deluxe sample size Tarte Mascara which perfectly fits in this bag.  It's a good mascara, gets the job done.

I have this really gorgeous lipgloss from Colette.  There is no name of the shade on here but it's a very nice consistency.  It's not too sticky, has enough colour to be won on it's own and as the packaging suggests it shines bright.

My other lipgloss is by Dior.  It came in a box set with other glosses so I can't tell you the name of this either.  But this is perfect on a nude lip or any pinky lipstick shades.

Finally I have my mini makeup brushes.  One is from Thin Lizzy which I use for blushing, contouring and sometimes powdering.  The rest are from Eco Tools and I use for the eye area.  These are great.  Small, compact and fit perfectly.  Up until a few years ago all I used was a blush brush and sponge applicators.  But I have since broadened my knowledge on make up application.



So that's it everyone.  I know it's more than the average person but that's how I roll.

I leave you with this today:

Make up purchased as follows:

Elf and Physicians formula.  Instore and K-Mart and Priceline or www.iherb.com
Rimmel and Australis:  Instore at Priceline or www.priceline.com.au
Inglot:  Inglot store
Body Shop shimmer waves:  Body shop Australia
Jordana Products:  Can be bought at your local $2.00 store or Cheap as Chips.  Try online at www.cherryculture.com

The pursuit of happiness

Recently I have been thinking about this.  Happiness.  What is it?  How do you define it?  Is it attainable?  Can you find your happiness in this lifetime?  Do we know what this is?

A couple of days ago I went through such a high and such a low in just one day, that I felt like I had some kind of split personality.  I received a call in the morning from a friend who informed me that after many years and many attempts she had finally fallen pregnant.  I screamed from utter joy as I know how much she has wanted this and it absolutely was the best news I'd heard in a long time.

I was floating on a cloud truly happy for her.  Then as I was getting ready for bed in the late hours of that same day news came through to me that a dear friend had passed away.  Just like that. Gone in an instant.  My day had gone from elation to heartbreak.

Death has been a very big part of my life.  I have attended funerals since I was a 10 year old child. I think my parent's wanted my brother and myself to learn from an early age not to fear death or a person who has died.  We were always told it's God's plan and everyone has their destiny.  But no matter how many times you hear of a death or how many funerals you attend, there are just some that shock you and you cannot understand why they had to go before their time.

I will not dwell on this part but the last few days has made me think a lot about what is it that we want in life?.  My friend I believe knew what happiness was.  It was his beloved wife, warm weather, a cold beer, Rhythm and Blues, his family, his friends, his pugs and the beach.  For him it was simple.  You wake up in the morning, you get out and you enjoy life.  Every moment and every day counts and he did not waste a minute feeling sorry for himself.  He is to me now an inspiration.  Someone I will never forget.  He will be that beacon of light guiding us all through our dark times.

For me happiness is my children.  I love life and all it has to offer but until my children came along there was always something missing.

Happiness is also that quiet time in the evening when I can drink my tea and have some me time.

Happiness is a long hot shower on a cold day.  A catch up with friends over a meal or a drink.

Happiness is the snow, cold winter days and some hot chocolate.

Happiness is my late father's Fish broth, hot and spicy with some warm bread.

Happiness is standing in a book shop and finding the next great novel I will read

Happiness is watching talented people doing talented things.

Happiness is the Art Gallery and pictures that tell a thousand words.

Happiness are my memories of my childhood and all my adventures.

Happiness is hearing my children laugh and call out "Mummy"

Happiness is of new things  yet to come and what lies ahead.

What is your happiness?  Have you found it?  Or are you still looking for it?

Whatever the situation your in always remember you are here for a reason.  No matter what that reason is you have been given a chance to experience life and all it has to offer.

It's your choice.  But ultimately there is always light at the end of the tunnel.  Let me know what your happiness is.  Write me a comment below.  I have had problems with this blog and comments but I think now this may be ok so give it a go.

I dedicate this Blog to my friend B.O.  To a life cut too short.  To a person that always made us laugh with his comical satire and unforgettable one liner's.  And to the only person who could call you Fat and get away with it.  The greatest stirrer and debater of them all.  Forever in our hearts and missed dearly by everyone who knew him.

I leave you with this today:

"CARPE DIEM" Seize the day. Happiness is by choice, not by chance.

The Pressure's of Motherhood and other things.

I didn't think I'd become a Mother.  Not because I didn't want to, but just because my life didn't seem to be going in that direction.  I had a couple of failed long term relationships behind me, I was way into my late 30's, and I thought it just wasn't going to happen.  I wasn't upset by this. I had my niece and nephew who I spent enormous amounts of time with.  I accepted that maybe this wasn't going to be my path in life and I was content and didn't feel I had missed out on anything.  My life was full and busy and I was looking forward to whatever the future held for me.

Well, when you least expect it your life just does one big turnaround.  Within a matter of 6 years, I have managed to snag myself a partner,  give birth to two kids, move to another state and have my life turned upside down.  I surprised many people with this including myself!  I have had some incredible high's but also some very bad lows.  In this time I also lost my father, lost a few friendships and saw some things in people that I thought was reserved for my past.  I also have learnt a lot about myself.

It took me about 3 years to realize I wasn't the same person as I was before.  At a drop of a hat I could be anywhere.  Just grab my keys, my purse and away I'd go.  Any party, any event, anything wasn't too much.  I could stay up till all hours and I would vary rarely say no to anything.  I enjoyed my freedom, enjoyed being out of the house I was never a homebody.

These days it's not as easy to just go on a whim.  Firstly organizing babysitting is difficult for me.  My only support network ( which is mainly my mum ) lives in another state.  So I sometimes ask my children's Godparent's who are always willing to help out as best as they can. But I don't ask all the time.  I have also discovered that when you have small children under 4 like I do, people tend to not invite you to as many things as when your single and always available.  It's like you now belong to this other club where children's parties and get togethers are the only place reserved for you.

In saying this I also find that when I am out without my children, I am constantly thinking about them.  I find it hard to relax as they are always on my mind and I'm always looking at my watch.  Whereas before I didn't care when I came home.  It's a catch 22 all round.

I feel guilty when I leave my kids and I'm not with them.  I made a conscious decision not to work until they started school so I could be with them as much as I can while I can.  I spent my whole life from the age of 15 onwards working so really it was a big step for me. But I gave up my career and at first I enjoyed it.  Yes it was tiring, and it took me a while to get the hang of it, but my first year or two was good.

But then I started to feel stifled, claustrophobic and a little bit depressed.  I started to resent comments like " Oh your a stay at home mum lucky you"  like I did nothing all day. I resented some of the higher then though attitudes I received from other Mother's who were working and acted like they were somehow more Superior than me.  When really I would think that all mother's would understand each other and empathize with each other's situation's.  Some people would even go so far as to say I wasn't contributing, that I just did nothing but paint my nails and watch soapies, that my partner was the hard worker.  The poor person who had to work all day, while I just twiddled my thumbs.  (Yeah right ).  When in reality it was quite the opposite.

I myself am guilty of being one of those people who thought stay at home mother's had the best of it. This was before I had children and knew anything about rearing them.   But really in my opinion no mother whether working or at home has the best of it.  You are actually doing the best you can.  Your trying to keep the house in order, the kids happy, your partner satisfied and a lot of the time there is nothing left for yourself.  If couple's survive the first 5 year's of their kids lives then your on a winner.  I can see why people split when they have small children.  No sleep and you barely have time to talk to each other.  When you do get some time out, all you want to do is lie down somewhere. We long for 8 hours sleep. Actually 6 hours would be nice right now!!!

Your job as a Mother is all encompassing.  It's 24 hours a day 7 day's a week.  No time off, no sick days, no excuses.

I went through a very hard time at a certain stage.  You always hear about the Super mother's who have everything under control.  Their houses look like museums; spotless perfect.  Dinner is cooked, table ready, they are there to greet their husband's, they entertain their kids, they are always smiling, always happy, life is good, no problems, no issues. no worries. They survive on no sleep, they can do the job of 10 people and nothing is too hard.

I'm beginning to wonder whether or not this is a myth.  Just like the Loch ness monster.  You hear the stories, but are they real??

After going through my dark phase, I turned a corner.  Mainly at the beginning of this year.  A few things had come to a head for me.  It's like I was walking through a fog and had come out the other end.  All of a sudden everything became clear.

What had actually happened is I was trying so hard to be this good, perfect mother, I was so focussed on my children and partner, that I forgot about myself.  I forgot who I was for a little while.  I let certain things slide which I never would have before.  I avoided confrontation with people when previously I would have shut down any negativity coming towards me. I just somehow internalized everything.  It's like staying at home shut me out.  For those that know me would know that this was very unlike me.

I have always been a fighter.  My parent's used to joke that I was born with a fist jutting out.  That as a child I was severely independent and that I would fight for my right's at every turn.  I was protective of my younger brother and my close friends.  I would never allow anyone to belittle me and if people gossiped I didn't care.  I just went on and did what I wanted because really why care about idiots who had nothing better to do but talk about you.  Get a life I used to say.  Meanwhile I was out living mine.

So that person has now come back.  My hiatus is over.  I think with my Father passing away, my second pregnancy soon after ( and not an easy one I might add), certain people's attitude's and behaviour, all affected me as a person and I was too tired to fight back.  All I could focus on was getting through the day.  I could barely keep on top of things.  I just couldn't deal with it all at once.

Motherhood has definitely changed my attitude and thought's to some things and to some people.  I have let go of my resentment.  In it's place is someone who has learnt that everything in life is a learning curve.  That most things are temporary.  We are not going to live forever. I have also learnt that I just don't have time for negativity.  My kids need me as their rock, their role model and just as their mum.

There are different pressure's and ways to deal with them.  My mental toughness has always got me through everything.  I look at my beautiful children and thank God for them every day.  For all the things that have hit me in the last few year's they are my brightness, my light, my love and my life.

These two little human beings that I helped create are reason enough for me to see that life is full of miracle's.  That really if we are un happy or something is not right, not to give into it but to meet it head on and say. "Stuff you"  ( or the other alternative ).

I now do give myself some time out.  I take Zumba classes twice a week which helps relieve some of my stress.  Thursday nights I often go shopping on my own so I can get things done.  Every month I get my nails done and a pedicure. Occasionally I will go out with a girlfriend or two.  I spend as much time as I can hugging and loving my children.  Watching them grow and listening to their voices and funny stories.  My daughter has started walking and is saying words.  She is quite the character.  I see a lot of my independence in her.  She's feisty and tough, but sensitive too. A little mini me that looks like her father.   My son is my little comedian.  He is at that age where everything he says is funny.  But he is so smart, intuitive and thoughtful.  He's my right hand man.

I feel that this blog post has been a little revealing but cathartic for me.  I just wanted to put it out there that not everything is as it seems.  If you see a mother yelling at her child or going crazy in a shopping centre then don't judge.  Alternatively if you see one that looks immaculate, her kids dressed perfect, her face under control don't assume that all is o.k.  Looks can be deceiving.  Just don't feel you know someone just because of the way they look. 

If you are a Mother yourself or you are the other half of the dynamic duo then be kind to yourself.  Be kind to each other.  A cup of tea, a nice word, helping each other out or asking for help may relieve some of the pressure's.

If you are doing it on your own, don't beat yourself up and don't be hard on yourself.  Find a support network, join a group or turn to your friends.

Whatever your situation there is always somewhere you can turn and there is always someone who  can relate to you.

I have now embraced motherhood for everything that it is.  Pressures and all.  It has made me richer as a person, stronger as an individual and I look forward to everything else I need to tackle and embrace as time goes by.

I will be away for about a month spending time with my loved one's in my hometown of Melbourne so I won't be writing until I get back.

Take care peeps.  Hopefully you found some enjoyment or something that strikes a chord with you in this blog post.  At the end of the day we are all human.

Seeya!


In a child's eyes, a mother is a goddess. She can be glorious or terrible, benevolent or filled with wrath, but she commands love either way. I am convinced that this is the greatest power in the universe.”
― N.K. Jemisin, The Hundred Thousand Kingdoms    

What's in MY BAG

Or should I say, what's in THE BAG I share with my kids!!! 

Let's face facts here.  I was never a minimalist.  Not for lack of trying. (Believe me I have tried!) I am one of those people who takes everything with me "just in case".  Travelling overseas I would send 2 suitcases of luggage before I even got on a plane myself (with another suitcase and carry on).  I would pick up my luggage at my destination and away I'd go.  Much cheaper then paying for it to go with you.  It wasn't all clothes and stuff for myself.  It included presents for family and friends and also I would leave room for things that I would buy or be given to take back with me.  Usually sending it back again by itself on a ship or plane.

Nowadays they only allow you about 25kgs in check in luggage (depending on which airline) when travelling to other countries. (Economy class) . Seriously my makeup bag weighs that much!!

Anyway let's get back to my everyday bag.  Over the years I have had all sorts of bags.  Bordering a long Medium to Large for work and medium to small for going out.  Usually going out with friends on the weekend in the evening I would only need my keys, money, cards, a face powder for touch ups, a lipstick, mints and my phone.  Sometimes it would include band aides, needle and thread, safety pins, a nail file and some water.

So you can imagine what I would take in my everyday bag.  Going to work I would have my wallet, keys, phone, small can of hairspray, makeup bag, small first aid kit, mints, work diary and everything else I could squash in there.  I went through so many bags over the years. Some couldn't withstand all the crap I had in there and others just were not practical.  I also would get bored and buy a new one now and then.

My bag now is quite large.  When I first had my son I bought a beautiful fashionable and quite expensive baby bag.  I wanted it to be stylish, durable and something that was practical.  Well that didn't work.  The bag was nice but it wasn't big enough and it wasn't durable enough.  I ended up carrying two bags.  Since then I have gone through about 3 bags for him and 2 for my daughter.  The one I have now I'm happy with.  It's actually a travel bag but it fits everything we all need.

This is what I now have in here.  I go through phases so this isn't always the contents of my bag but for now this is it:

These are the things that are always there.  Stuff I cannot live without.  From time to time it varies, including the occasional toy, receipts, books etc. 

 

 

 

Nappies and Wipes.  I do not leave home without these!!  Wipes are also good for cleaning up any little accidental spillages or sticky fingers.  I look forward to the day my kids can do without these completely.  Although I think I will be carrying wipes with me everywhere...They come in handy for an array of disasters!!

 

My make up bag.  I have all sorts of things in here from lipsticks, lipliners, powder, small eyeshadow kit and brushes.  This also varies from time to time.  But no matter what large bag I'm carrying I always have a little makeup bag. O.k maybe not so little. However, this for me is a must.  Especially now when my kids are constantly touching my face and I'm running around all day!! I may do a separate blog post as to what I have in here.  It will take up too much room if I do it now!

 

 

 

 

Water Bottles.  I have one for myself, for my son and my daughter has a smaller one which is not pictured here.  We do not leave the house without water ever.  I don't like my kids drinking soft drink.  I let them have an occasional apple juice but I prefer them to drink water.  They love it so I have no problems there.

Snacks.  Sometimes when I'm on the run, or shopping and I don't have time to stop, I give my kids some healthy snacks.  Fruit bars are their favourites. Great and handy when they are sitting in the shopping trolley or pram.

Sunglasses, Pen and Bibs.  I cannot drive without my sunglasses.  Even in Winter when it's cloudy and glary. I always have a pen with me to write in my notebook, and the bib is for my daughter because when she eats it goes all over her clothes!

 

 

Bottles, keys and purse.  Just like the snacks I don't travel without my daughters bottles.  She enjoys having milk on the road and if I can't get to milk I have her favourite formula mixture in a little pot as you can see in the picture.  My keys and purse are self explanatory.

My phone.  Well for obvious reason's I do not leave home without my phone.  Also comes in handy when my son becomes antsy so I let him play a few games. This keeps him quiet when I'm in line or I we have to wait at banks etc.

My trusty notebook.  I write my ideas, things I need to do, my lists, addresses and everything else I need in one spot.  Also under there I have a large face washer.  It comes in handy when I need to change my daughter's nappy.  I previously used disposable nappy change sheets and sometimes I use handtowels if I have nothing else but the face washer has all sorts of uses!!  Plus I'm not wasting copious amounts of paper. Just above my notebook you can maybe see a small shirt.  I always carry spare clothes for my daughter and occasionally for my son.  You never know when there may be a disaster of some kind and you need a change of clothes.  Actually if I could, I'd bring myself a change of clothes. I somehow never come home quite how I left!

 

 

 

Bottle holder:  This particular bag I have does not hold bottles on the side like most baby bags so I put them in here.  It's insulated so keeps bottles warm or cold.  Fits two bottles and can fit a small container of food.  Very Handy!

 



 

So there you go!  I'm sure some of you mother's can relate to me.  If you can get away with carrying less stuff please let me know how you do it!  Leaving the house takes a good 15 minutes because I have to check if I have everything with me.  Also, leaving any destination to come home is a good 15 minute wait to make sure I've put everything back in the bag to come home!

 

I look forward to the day I can have a nice bag for myself again, with no bottles or nappies flying out of it.

 

I leave you with this today:

 

“There is no way to be a perfect mother, and a million ways to be a good one” - Jill Churchill

 

Until next time SEEYA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The month that was...

It's been a bit of an up and down month for me. From my previous posts you will see that I did some renovations.  I also updated my make-up collection and bought a new vanity.  I will add some more reviews on the make up I bought as I have had a chance to trial it all.

Besides that I have been feeling a bit flat.  I have kept up with my Zumba classes twice a week to give myself time out, a chance to exercise and speak to other women.  ( As I like to call it running away from home for an hour ).

But I have just been feeling blah. Normally in Winter I am very upbeat and happy.  Cool weather excites me. Most people are either hibernating or hiding this time of year.  I actually like to go out and find I am most active when it's freezing. Heat takes the life out of me, so its a bit surprising I have been feeling this way.  I'm putting it down to hormones. Since I have had my daughter I have felt a bit unbalanced.  I may take a trip to my GP to have a check up and see what I can do.

I think most of us have at one time or another not felt quite right for whatever reason.  I think it's helpful to have someone to talk to or be aware and find a way to rectify the issue at hand.  It could just be simply something is out of balance in your system, you may be feeling uninspired or maybe your just taking time out from the world.

Whatever it is be sure to take care of yourself as much as possible.  Often mother's with small children under 4 ( or young children in general ) do not get enough sleep, tend to skip meals and not have enough time out.  Get your husbands/partner's to help you out as much as you can and if it all gets too much then give yourself a break.  After all none of us are Superhuman even if we try to be.  I put a lot of pressure on myself to have everything organized and sorted.  Most times these days I am failing in that department.  But I have to tell myself that there is only one of me and if I can't finish something it's not the end of the world. As long as we are all happy and healthy then everything else will fall into place.

Here are some of the things I have bought and trialled this month. Below I have added my finished Vanity, chair and draws.  Hopefully you find something that you may like for yourself or for someone you know.  Or maybe I have given you some great ideas.

This is the top of my Vanity with the draw pulled out.  I bought dividers from Howard's storage and Ikea to organize everything you see in the draws.  On my table I have makeup palette's which are in mail and napkin organizers from Office Works and Ikea. Make up brushes are in plant pots which I bought from Ikea as well.  I keep my Ear buds (Q tips), makeup wipes, tweezers and spare eyeshadow applicators in small lollie jars which cost me about $2 from Cheap as Chips.  I also hold all my creams and lotions on a small cake stand I bought from a Home ware store. The lipstick holders I bought online at Ebay and Target.  The Zebra print coaster I bought from a gift store. It came in a pack of 4.  I think the place I bought it from is called Orange Story. Finally there is a small acrylic 3 draw holder which I use to keep my lipglosses and that cost me about $8.00 from K-mart.

My vanity is from Ikea.  Its called the Malm Dresser draw. Its not too big or long so fits perfectly in the bedroom.

This is the chair I decorated.  I bought a chair from Ikea and just covered it with a chair cover and Zebra sash both from ebay.  I couldn't find a chair I liked to complement my room décor so this was the most cost effective way to do it.  Next to my vanity in the back I have 9 draws also from Ikea which are called the Alex draws.  These fit all my extra bits and pieces and looks great with the vanity.

I am just glad that I can have something organized to my liking.  No go zone for the kids.  Although they have snuck in there a couple of times and enjoyed touching everything!!  Argh!!


Now for some make up reviews.

Pur Minerals Correcting Primer in Peach.  ( They come in other colours, Green and natural)

I have been using this primer for a while now and it's very good.  It corrects my skin tone, gives me a brighter look and covers a few of my less then perfect area's.  Very good to wear under foundation.  I find this is one of the better primers and I bought it off the TVSN shopping chanel.  They have a website which I will link below if you want to look at any of their other products or if you want to buy this primer!

Physicians formula Happy Blusher ( on left ) in Natural and Glow and Mood Boosting powder ( on right ).

I have always liked physicians formula.  For years I wore their baked eye shadow trios.  Good quality and pigmentation.  The blusher here looks very bright but actually is a nice light colour on skin.  Its not muddy and has a bit of a shimmer to it.  This would be great in summer over a BB or CC cream or light foundation.  The powder on the right is great if you just want to set your foundation and not use anything too over the top.  Gives your skin a nice glow.  You can also use parts of it to highlight your cheekbones, nose and cupids bow.  All in all if your looking for something light with a bit of a glow then I would recommend these.  Reasonably priced.

Maybelline 24 hour Colour Tattoo.  Colours from left going clockwise: 45Bold Gold, 55 Inked Pink, 70 Barely Branded and 25 Bad to the Bronze.

I have never been a fan of cream eyeshadows I never thought they lasted long and I didn't think they suited me.  Well I finally found one's that last and that suit my complexion .  I saw these recommended by a lot of women on youtube. So I thought I'd try them.  These do last all day.  I haven't tried them for 24 hours ( I don't think I'd last that long ). However, I can see they have staying power.  They make a great base to other eyeshadows too.  I got them while they were on sale for about $9.00 each.  I also think that if you couldn't be bothered or didn't have time to put on too much eye make up then this is for you.  Literally smooth one or two shades with your finger add some mascara and eyeliner and your good to go.

The next two products almost have identical packaging but are very different companies and are at opposite ends of the pricing scale.

On the left is Nars Hungry heart duo and on the right is Elf Contouring blush and bronzing powder in St .Lucia.

Hungry Heart by Nars are great highlighters that can be worn along the cheek bone, down the bridge of your nose, cupids bow or anywhere you want the light to reflect.  The price tag is a bit steep anywhere between $50 - $60.  If you have the money then why not.  But on the other hand for about $6.00 to $12.00 depending on where you buy this from Elf have a bronzing, blush duo which is absolutely worth the money.  The bronzer is fantastic for contouring your face just under your cheeks, sides of forehead,  sides of nose and under your chin.  The blush is a very soft nice peachy pink shade with some shimmer in it which also gives you a nice glow.  I have been enjoying these the last week or so.  I don't use them both at the same time but I mix and match with other makeup.  Elf also has a highlighting blush, similar in colour to Hungry heart.  So if you do not want to part with a lot of money then buy this!!  If you are new to make up I would definitely recommend Elf.  Very affordable and great quality.

Finally we have lipsticks.  I'm always looking for really good one's. Usually I opt for a Matte shade and put lipgloss over the top.  The lipsticks above are from NYX .  It is the Aqua Luxe range.  I bought these online as my local Target didn't stock these particular one's.  Let me just say I have found my favourites of all time.  These are so smooth, so beautiful.  It gives a gorgeous shine and brightens up your whole face without being too over the top.  I only bought one Matte shade the rest don't need lipgloss as it gives you a lipstick/lipgloss effect.  I highly recommend these.  Absolutely love them and will keep buying them.  They only cost about $4 -$6.00 online. BARGAIN!!!! I refuse to pay anymore then about $20.00 for a lipstick. (And even that is steep sometimes) Anything over that for me is a waste of money.  In Australia a Mac lipstick costs anywhere between $36 dollars and above.  I find that ludicrous.  I love Mac, but when I think how much I paid for the one's above, they are worth much, much more and I am happy with my choice.  I'd rather spend $36 on good quality eyeshadow or eyeshadow palette.

The colours from left to right are:  Summer breeze, Holistic, Forbidden (which is the only matte shade), Aurora, Elusive, Enchanting, Glory, Lotus.


Please see links to websites to buy the above products:

For furniture, homewares, décor and knick knacks:                 www.ikea.com
Target online:  Nyx Makeup                                                     www.target.com.au
Nyx you also can buy at Cherry Culture online                   www.cherryculture.com
For anything you can't find elsewhere try Ebay:                      www.ebay.com
For Elf makeup: ( Also at K-Mart)                                           www.iherb.com

Physicians Formula and Maybelline:  Priceline Stores:           www.pricline.com.au
TVSN Shopping channel 14:                                                    www.tvsn.com.au

For my U.S friends Ulta and Walgreens will have most of the makeup I have on here.

Hope you enjoyed my reviews.  Until next time I leave you with this:


Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.”
― Mahatma Gandhi

I'm BACK!!

Well technically I never really went anywhere.  It's been so long now since my last entry I'm beginning to think I've forgotten how to write.  As I mentioned in my previous post I was tied up with a lot of events.  One of which was cleaning up the study.  I can finally say its done.  We threw out all the old stuff, bought some great functional desks and storage boxes.  The old carpet has been replaced.  It now looks like a proper study, and it's a lot easier to find things.

Along with this the bedroom received a make over.  New carpet, a fresh coat of paint, new bed linen and I treated myself to a nice dresser and chair.  I can now do my make up in peace in one room without walking back and forth through cupboards.  I'm just waiting for my mirror to be put up. Below is what it looks like without the mirror. I covered the chair with a chair cover and sash I bought from ebay.  The dresser/vanity, chair and draws are from Ikea.  My little diamanté rubbish bin in the corner is from the Reject shop.  I will do a proper little tour next time but for now at least I'm happy with the outcome.  I can use my little Shaver shop light up mirror until my other one is sorted and the dresser is right near the window so I get plenty of natural light.

My new make up has slowly been arriving ( thank you Australia Post ).  Actually people must think I'm having an affair with the courier driver.  He has been over that often in the past 3 weeks my neighbours must be thinking what's going on over there?

Having two kids under 4 and one of which is extremely hyper active, I find it difficult to shop at retail outlets.  I can't really peruse or try things.  One child is either screaming for food a drink or a toy and the other one wants to climb and crawl and cause me heart failure.  So online shopping is a God send!!!

I also find that I can buy stuff cheaper online.  A lot of the make up I wanted cost a fortune in Australia, so I purchased it from the U.S and the U.K with reasonable delivery charges and in some cases FREE delivery.

I discovered quite a few really good bargain companies that received rave reviews on You Tube by make up guru's and I'm impressed with the products so far.

Below is what I have tried and what I can recommend to you at this stage.  I will do other reviews in my next blog.

Let's start with some eyeshadow palette's I recently purchased:  I will link below all the sites I buy from.


Too faced Boudoir eyes:  Prior to going on You Tube I had never heard of this Make up Company.  I am glad I came across it.  They have the most gorgeous packaging.  This particular palette has three large base shades and 4 smaller one's. It comes in a handy tin that can be easily travelled with.  You also receive a leaflet showing you 3 looks you can achieve.  The shades can be blended lightly or you can add more for a smokey night time look.  This I would recommended if you are going out for a night with the girls, dinner with your b/f, husband, partner, or if you want  gorgeous eyes that stand out but are different to the usual black smokey look. Recommended.  Price anywhere between $37-$50 AUD.



                                                                     

 

 

 

 

Smashbox MasterClass Palette 2:  If you need a large palette with everything in it then this is the one for you.  With over 24 shimmering and matt shades.  2 Highlighters, 5 blushes, 4 gel eyeliners and a contouring bronzer. All you need is to take a lipstick, foundation and mascara and you have everything.  There are shades to suit everyone and you can achieve a multitude of looks.  Most of the shades are highly pigmented and the highlighter shades are gorgeous!  Definitely take this if you are planning a long trip somewhere and don't have space for a lot of makeup palettes.

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Balm Rock n Roll Balm Jovi Pallette and Meet Matt Nude Palette:  Besides the fun and flirty packaging these two palettes offer very different looks.  The first Rock n Roll Palette, is for lovers of colour and drama.  Palette comes with 12 eyeshadows, a highlighter, blush and two lip colours.  Also great for travel.  There are quite a few shimmery metallic shades in this one. So if you like a bright shiny shimmery eys this one is for you.  Meet Matt Nude is for lovers of pure Matt buttery eyeshadows.  I love this palette.  Great for a daytime look.  Makes your eyes look smooth.  Easily blended colours and you can go from subtle to dark.  This is great from work to night time functions.  As its buildable and long wearing.  Approximately:  $40-$65 each depending on where you buy.

 

 

Chi Chi Bronzes and Naturals Palettes:  If your a beginner in make up or you just want some nice basic affordable shades then these are the palettes for you. Retailing at about:  $22.00 each and can be found in your local Target.  So if you don't like going on the internet you can pick these up easily.  These shades are highly pigmented, look beautiful, are accessible and easy to use.  Fits in your bag and the colours suit everyone. 

 

 

Urban Decay Naked Palette: When I emptied out my draws of all my old make up this was the first palette I bought online. 12 mostly metallic shades with a couple of Matte shades.  This looks great for a night time look.  On me personally during the day is too much.  But then again I'm not 20 anymore.  I have worn this quite a few times in the evening since I bought it.  It catches the light and makes your eyes sparkle. Definitely a great buy if you enjoy metallic shades.  Naked also have the Naked 2 and 3 palettes which I currently do not own.  But I do have their Naked Basics which I have yet to try.  Price:  Anywhere between $55 - $79 depending on which Website and availability.

 

 

 

 

 

Powder Foundation:  NYX Stay Matte but not flat and Milani Powder foundation

 

I discovered NYX online but I now know it is sold in Target Stores across Australia.  This Powder foundation is exactly what it says it is.   It gives great coverage but doesn't give you a cakey powdery look.  Milani foundation is slightly a lighter texture but buildable.  I love these when you just don't have time to mess around with liquid foundations.  For those of you who are always in a hurry like me this is great for mornings when your doing the school run or have to get up early with little time to do your face.  NYX Powder Foundation Approx: $15.00 in store (Half price online) Milani Powder Foundation bought online: $8.00

 

 

 

 

Milani Baked Blushes: Let me just say that I love Milani.  It's very affordable make up but excellent quality. I discovered Milani also on You Tube.  I'm not sorry I have given them a try.  These blushes are the bomb.  I have them in the colours Luminoso which is the one on the right, middle is Corallina  and far left is the Rose D'Oro.  These are up there with the best of them.  They give your cheeks are gorgeous colour but not overpowering. They have a slight glow about them but not too shimmery.  You must check these out.  Online you can pick these up for about $8.00 BARGAIN!!!  Just look at the packaging.  You would think you paid a lot more than that!

 

 

 

 

That's it for my reviews.  I hope you find something in here that's for you.  I will in my blogs following do some more reviews on different things I'm trying.  I'm just happy all the clutter is leaving me and I can enjoy some new things...!!!

You can purchase all NYX, Milani, Urban Decay, Too Faced and The Balm products :

 

 

 

Links: www.cherryculture.com

www.crushcosmetics.com.au

www.beautyjoint.com

www.beautybay.com

www.ebay.com

 

 

You can  also buy NYX and Chi Chi from any Target store in Australia

 

I leave you with this:  A girl should be two things:  Classy and fabulous....... Author:  Coco Chanel

 

 

 

 

Agreed!!!